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Aug 20, 2009 21:44:52 GMT -5
Post by duskdreamer on Aug 20, 2009 21:44:52 GMT -5
i dont think you need to worry, its only a litle argument and your friend probably just wants to make you feel bad, if your really worried just give them a call and say your sorry for how you reacted. if your friends i dont think they would let something this simple come between you. just give them time and by next you see them everything will be fine. (hopefull) friends fight, tis part of life.
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Aug 21, 2009 5:01:52 GMT -5
Post by Imaginatio on Aug 21, 2009 5:01:52 GMT -5
It seems to me he just needs a bit of love and attention. To be truly honest if he knew you were uncomfortable around the other boy then he shouldn't have done that, it was rather mean of him. I agree with the phoning part, but you should also perhaps say that you're sorry but he does creep you out and it wasn't very nice for (your friend) to start trying to call him over.
Perhaps ask him to talk about whats worrying him? Sorry but I think saying you're going to kill yourself is definately not for someone actually contemplating it. Someone actually contemplating the big S word would not say a thing to anyone. They would not want anyone to know or realise before the deed was done, as it may cause pain to the others and they may try to talk the individual out of said deed.
Am I making sense here? Basically just sit him down and ask him whats wrong and how you can help. If he doesn't want to talk then just tell him you can't help him if you don't know whats wrong, and that he shouldn't be so upset with you (because if you don't know whats wrong, how can you know whether you're helping him or hindering him?)
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Aug 21, 2009 13:52:19 GMT -5
Post by - [s][w][a][y] - on Aug 21, 2009 13:52:19 GMT -5
Actually, when someone is serious about suicide, they will confide in one person about it, in many cases... With the way that was said, however, I wouldn't worry too much. Talk to him/her and see what is bothering them, call them up or set up a time to hang out and to get their mind off of whatever is depressing them. Basically, just be there for them and show them that they are loved. As for him/her calling the one person over, that wasn't right of them and you should also talk to them about that too. Imaginatio has some good points
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Aug 24, 2009 14:48:00 GMT -5
Post by InFatesHandshearts on Aug 24, 2009 14:48:00 GMT -5
:j Thanks you all, I appreciate your help. My friend has cut himself before so I am worried about him. I will try to get him to tlell me whats wrong Thankjs.
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